In this article by Lydi Owen "The Rule of 10- versus women's primal wisdom" She talks about the history of the golden 10 centimetres that the Obstetrical community worships. Yet another example of ridiculous rules and absolute "Truths" that the medical machine invented way back in the 50's when they thought their doctors were omnipotent and could completely control childbirth. One of the many "Rules of Birthing" that they invented that still haunts most obstetrical wards to this day: That a woman MUST be fully dilated to 10 cm's before being allowed to push, other wise there will be horrifying outcomes.....
Just two weeks ago when I was labouring to birth my youngest son Kael, I encountered this "Rule of 10", and had to struggle through it alone, as no one would listen to my plea's of "I have to push!!". I was at 8 cm and getting Tsk Tsk Tsk from the on call Obstetrician - after being lectured about my inflamed cervix and the fears of my uterus rupturing, and being told NOT to push no matter what my him, the nurses and my midwives.... well, you listen, right? They are the professionals, right? So I went against my instinctual urge and panted and did what ever I could to NOT push.... But when the urge became a primal force that could not be ignored, I was incapable of NOT pushing...
There is a rule of labor that forbids a woman to push with contractions until her cervix is completely dilated to 10 cm. Women are warned that to push before this doorway is completely open and out of the way will result in a swollen and/or torn cervix.
What will supposedly happen if the cervix swells?
Doctors, nurses, midwives, doulas and childbirth educators all warn that a swollen cervix will impede labor and increase the chances of tearing the cervix, thus causing hemorrhage. They have been taught that a swollen cervix is easily broken or pulverized. If this is indeed the truth, then why do most women during labor have an irresistible urge to begin bearing down before dilation is complete?
Could it be that the instinctual wisdom of our bodies has become our enemy? Is Spirit trying to destroy us instead of guiding us? Why would we feel the need to begin bearing down at 5–6 cm (or sooner) if it would shatter the gateway to the baby’s outer world? ...
...How did this “Rule of Ten” come about?
In 1951 doctors Greenhill and DeLee wrote “During the first stage of labor no abdominal pushing is allowed because the cervix will tear.”(2)
We can safely assume that the women being studied by Greenhill and DeLee were under the influence of drugs, because in the mid-20th century the orgy of drug interference during labor and birth was at its height of glory. Almost no women were informed enough to withstand the onslaught of drugs given to them during birth in the hospital. Unfortunately, the situation has not changed in the sixty years since.
Therefore, these doctors were scientifically incorrect in concluding that the “Rule of Ten” was valid, without simultaneously observing a control group of drug-free laboring women in the upright position (as opposed to being drugged and lying down in beds).
HERE to read the entire article from Midwifery Today
...and low and behold, my son's head descended through my "inflamed and swollen" cervix with no trouble what so ever.
I managed to beat the odds and have my VBA3C birth. I managed to do this without the whole hearted support of the medical personnel who were present at Kael's birth. BUT..... how much easier would his birth have been if they had allowed me the freedom to push as my body instinctually wanted, if they had allowed me to be the guide to my birthing, trusting that as the birthing mother I KNEW what to do- that my body knew exactly what to do. If they had allowed me that logical freedom, I wouldn't have had the epidural that almost ruined everything. I would have pushed how I wanted, when I wanted, and I would have been the one in control, instead of the one being controlled.
...If Wishes were Fishes, right?
Please read the article- please tell everyone you know about it- talk to your midwives and doctors about it!! It is only when women take back control of their bodies and their births that we can make permanent changes to how the field of Obstetrics treats women, and make hospitals set up their policies to enable women, instead of disabling them.
You are woman. Let them hear you roar!

Dani you rock. I LOVED your last sentence... :)
ReplyDeleteNext baby I am NOT going to let the "professionals" tell me not to push ... I had this experience with both of my kids, around 7-8 cm, and as you said, it is simply NOT an URGE to push. It's WELL beyond an urge. My body will actually do this auto-pilot contortion thing and begin pushing on its own. With my eldest I thankfully had a nurse who had had the same experience herself, and said as much to the doctor on duty. "She can't stop, it's stronger than her" Thank you Nurse Sonia!! The OB still warned me NOT to push along with plenty of "impending doom" scenarios thrown in.
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ReplyDeleteMeg, I can't tell you how many times I've heard this from women - the wrenching force that guides a mother to push - physically- no matter what they believe intellectually. Hell I've even heard of women who've been given an epidural at 6cm, only to discover a short time later that there's a baby laying between their legs- because their bodies had pushed the baby out without them even realizing it!!!
My body started pushing "early" too but it was uncomfortable for me, it cause pain in my cervix, so my challenge was to relax but then things changed. I thought I had to go to the bathroom but my nurse and doula said they thought it was the baby (I now know I went from extremely drowsy to wide awake and so they knew it was time) I was afraid to push because of the previous discomfort and also because 20min earlier I pronounced to be at 5cm so I couldn't believe it was really time. I asked to be checked and sure enough was ready, I pushed once laying back OUCH, and then kneeled upright and all the discomfort evaporated and with out effort on my part my body pushed him down for me. It was incredible. What a waste being told my dialation. It made me doubt what my body was doing and being "stuck" at 5cm made me doubt if I could finish this work as it had been nearly 24hrs at that point but my baby was in my arms 30min after that "upsetting" announcement, I wasn't 'halfway' like I though, I was nearly finshed working! So who is gonna add too much force to her body's pushes if its uncomfortable? Its absurd to demand her to stop her body. And dilation means very little if you ask me.
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